Disruptive ringtones, loud conversations, inappropriate media playing and rude texting are are all examples of how intrusive cell phones have become in our lives today. For most of us, cell phones and mobile devices, are a wonderfully convenient and necessary tool that we benefit greatly from. However, we also need to realize that while we are interacting with this amazing technology, there are real human beings all around us in the real world that deserve our courtesy and respect.

Displaying the above bad manners is not just disrespectful, it may even lead to what experts call “cell phone rage,” or angry outbursts and violence based on rude cell phone behavior. To avoid such behavior, it is best to practice the following cell phone etiquette tips:

1. Follow the rules – Cell phone restrictions are usually put into place for safety reasons, therefore your cooperation is definitely needed.
2. Be aware – Avoid ‘cell yell” or loud talking which can be disruptive and annoying. Also, discontinue emotional or angry conversations which can be unsettling to others.
3. Be present – Set your phone to silent when you are in a meeting, movie theater, church or similar setting. Do not text. If you must take a call, excuse yourself and go outside.
4. Be private – Do not discuss or display sensitive, extremely personal or inappropriate information when in public. You never know who is listening or looking. Also, protect the person you are talking to by telling them when you are using speaker or video functions in a public space.
5. Be a wireless Samaritan – You can call 911 from you phone and help others by reporting crimes or emergencies.
6. Respect photo/video privacy rights – Always ask for permission before shooting a photo or video of someone with your device, especially children and minors.
7. Be discreet with media playing – Do not display inappropriate, disturbing or R-rated media content where it can be seen or heard by others, especially children. Also, keep volume low or use earphones.

Following these tips allows you to integrate the use of technology into your life in a way that is respectful of those around you. After all, they deserve the same attention and courtesy as the person you are engaging with on your phone. To learn more, visit our Wireless and Mobile Device Safety lesson.